Our Child Is Our Responsibility ( 2 )

I welcome all of you with the Islamic greeting.
Assalamualaikum w.b.t
May peace, mercy and blessing of the Almighty Allah be upon you.

All the praises and thanks be to Allah S.W.T for borrowing me this such invaluable breath ever.

As I storied for my previous post was all about the way we took to raise our little laling Nur Syifa. In the continuity from the previous one, there's something I would like to share with all of you. Actually,it was from her "ibu" when she read my first post; she asked why didn't I  include the first toy ever from laling. The toy was her favorite and she loved very much. Then I said it didn't come out in my mind at the time I was typing the last post. Fortunately, I once mentioned to have 2nd series of the post "Our Child Is Our Responsibility", so it wouldn't be a problem. I believe that there must have continuity posts followed from behind until laling reached younger. As the result, all the post would be her reference on how we as her parent took the best care of her. We want she know the fact! Ha3.

The first toy was made from rubber and I bought it at Aeon. It was her fist toy she played at all times. Moreover, she kept the toy as her food but due to size, it couldn't be eaten at all. I observe her progress and I know every bites she did,she was learning from that. The bites produced lots of saliva  and it came out from her mouth.ha3! Actually,a baby in her age was in the process of knowing shapes. Every touches and every bites she did connected to her mind through thousands neurons inside. So, I just observe and sometimes I gave her smiles so that she know she wasn't all alone. I still remember the time we visited my wife's friend at Wangsamaju. My wife's friend also had a baby girl and I think she was same age as laling. Laling denied her toy to be taken by others, she screamed loudly symbolises her disagreement if the toy change to other hands. That's her stand that nobody was allowed to take what hers. We just laughed seeing her action because we know that the toy was her favourite. Ultimately, nobody could get from her or she would cry. What do we prefer? Of course, we won't let her cry! In part of science, when every neurons connected each other from thousands of neurons in our brain we would be smarter and intelligent. That's why,people who is commonly in math practices, they are intelligent because every times they do exercises,their neurons connected.

The other accessories or facilities for laling were stroller and carrier. We bought on the reason to lighten our burden whenever we go out for sightseeing. I believe that having a premature baby was totally different with the normal one. This due to unused those facilities because laling felt no comfortable. For example, we went for outdoor shopping and of course we bring along stroller or sometimes carrier for our convenience but at the last she refused all those things.  She seems floated in the carrier or I could say she sank into the carrier's hole just because she was not as big as other babies who were in same age as her. Since the day, I realized that I have to treat laling so that she receives the superb special service. She was not as others. What I want those who has premature baby to know is that, you must know how to treat them as special one in term of services. Ultimately, all those things were stored properly with no function. But,I never regret because I know they would be useful one day. Ha3.. (newborn for the next years, at least would accompany Laling to play and to mess around with the messy plates, saucepans, spoons and many more. Owhh, how exhausted are we as her parent).

Her "ibu" demands to buy bicycle for laling. By having a bicycle would be easier for laling to go out for sightseeing at the garden. We commonly go around Putrajaya on the reason we had no choice. At first, I noticed that the bicycle was used happily wherever "ibu" or I shove the bicycle and laling was on the bicycle. It was great moments demonstrated a great loving family. But, from day to days, it seems unused due to our fault. I myself placed the bicycle upstairs and never bring down when we go out for sightseeing. Finally, this facility also stored well with also no function at all. But, sometimes I saw laling go closer to the duckling bicycle just to press the music buttons. She's totally affected with the music. That's why, my fist post I once mentioned about music or sounds as the tools to generate her IQ and EQ. She responded very well!! I'm attracted with her action and I believe her "ibu" also feel the same.

I just want laling to know that how deep our love over her. We as parent want the best from her. And we do pray she would be a pious daughter who obey Allah S.W.T, obey the Prophet Muhammad and obey us as her eternal parent. We also do hope so that she would benefit us in the world and hereafter. She is everything for the both of us!